The Deed (Only for those who want the truth)

Hey guys,

So everyone knows how you make a baby, and that act doesn't stop once you're pregnant. At least not for me and my husband.

However, for the majority of my first trimester I didn't really want to do anything. I did, though, act like I did because I felt like I was supposed to be jazzing for any form of pregnancy. Mom blogs really helped me realize that what I was feeling was normal.

Once I finally felt back to myself again, it was great. But after the deed wasn't. Honestly, I had no idea it would be any different than before the pregnancy.

TMI ahead:

After having fun (as I like to call it) it is gross and messy. Also, if you have no clue what to expect, afterwards can be really scary. For some women they spot, but another common factor is the need for a panty liner because once you are pregnant your cervix is closed and there is no where for the swimmers to go but out.

Condoms aren't always advised because the chemicals and spermicides. I'm not a doctor, but I do try to stay away from chemicals when I can.

If you are like me you have read all the things to look out for; one of those warning signs is the loss of the mucus plug. This being my first pregnancy I don't know what that looks like. So, when something yucky happens afterwards it's hard not to freak out.

After my first fun time during pregnancy, when I went to the restroom and freaked out. I texted a friend of mine who is a new mom and asked her what was normal. Apparently, messes are normal and as long as there is no pain or heavy bleeding, you shouldn't be too worried.

In short, sexy fun times are great during pregnancy, but always expect a mess.


Disclaimer: I am not a doctor and am not attempting to give medical advice.